Trust Over Spam: How to Use SMS Without Getting Flagged — and Win Customer Loyalty Instead

December 4, 2025 Marketing

In 2025, SMS remains one of the most effective and immediate channels for business communication — but with rising scam attempts, shifting consumer expectations, and tighter compliance rules, it’s more important than ever that businesses use SMS the right way. Send it respectfully, transparently, and with consent — and you’ll earn loyalty, trust, and results. Do it carelessly, and you risk being labeled spam, blocked — or worse, losing credibility altogether.

This guide shows you how to strike that balance: maximize SMS’s power, while minimizing the risk of alienating customers or getting flagged as spam.


The Power & Risk of SMS in 2025

Why SMS Works — When Done Right

  • SMS open rates are still extremely high — up to 98% according to recent aggregations of 2025 data. That dwarfs email’s typical 20–30% open rates. ad quickly: many statistics list 90% of messages read within minutes of delivery.
  • For businesses, SMS remains a core channel: the majority of organizations that use business texting say they’d recommend it to others.

In short: when customers expect texts, and you treat them with respect, SMS offers reach + immediacy + convenience — a potent combination for reminders, updates, confirmations, or engagement.

Why SMS Also Carries Reputation Risk Today

  • The risk landscape around SMS is changing fast. According to a 2025 survey by Consumer Reports, texting and messaging-based scam attempts increased by 50% in the last year.
  • Among those who reported digital scams, 30% said the scam started with a text or messaging app, up from 20% the previous year.
  • Users are becoming more wary: in a U.S. consumer survey of business texting users, nearly 70% say they’ve blocked a business number because the messages felt spammy or untrustworthy.
  • Key trust-breakers for users include strange sender numbers, suspicious links, poor formatting or sloppy grammar — and lack of follow-up when a customer replies.

In short: mass texting without care = brand damage. With scams on the rise, consumers are more selective than ever.

How to Use SMS to Build Trust — Not Noise

Given the opportunity and the risks, here’s a blueprint for using SMS wisely: build trust, deliver value, and avoid the spam trap.

1. Get Explicit Consent & Be Transparent

Treat SMS as you would any sensitive channel. Use clear opt-in language. Ensure customers know what they’re subscribing to (promotions? updates? reminders?) and give them an easy, visible opt-out option.

2. Use Recognizable, Verified Sender IDs

Trust begins before the first message is opened. Surveys show unknown numbers or suspicious-sounding sender IDs are a leading reason people block or distrust business texts.

If possible, use verified 10DLC or toll-free numbers that help carriers and recipients trust that the message is legitimate.

3. Send Value First — Not Noise

The most appreciated SMS messages today aren’t constant promotions — they’re helpful, timely, and relevant updates: order confirmations, shipping alerts, appointment reminders, support responses.

When you lead with utility, you build goodwill. When you lead with random promos, you risk being ignored — or worse, blocked.

4. Respect Reply Flow & Customer Expectations

Just like a phone call or email, have processes in place to respond to customers who reply. Surveys show more than half of customers felt ignored when businesses failed to reply to their texts — and those interactions often ended with the number being blocked.

Automation can help — but there should always be accountability.

5. Stay Compliant & Ethical

With rising regulatory scrutiny and growing consumer concern around scams, compliance is more than legal hygiene — it’s a trust-building tool. Familiarize yourself with laws like the Telephone Consumer Protection Act (TCPA), maintain records of opt-ins, and honor unsubscribes.

Bonus: compliance isn’t just about avoiding fines — it signals to your customers that you take their privacy and trust seriously.

Suggested Table: Trust-First vs. Spam-Risk SMS Approaches

ApproachWhat It Feels Like to CustomersLikely Outcome
Consent + Verified Sender ID + Value-first TextsHelpful, professional, relevantHigher engagement, retention, loyalty
Quick Replies / Clear Opt-out / Respectful FrequencyRespectful, responsive, humanBrand trust; lower unsubscribe/block rate
Compliance & Transparent PracticesLegitimate, trustworthyLong-term credibility & lower legal risk
Cold lists / Purchased contacts / No opt-inSpammy, intrusive, slick-lookingHigh unsubscribe/block rate; risk of complaints
Unknown sender + Promotional spam + frequent blastsAnnoying, shadyUsers block you — and tell others
Ignoring replies / No opt-out / poor follow-upDisrespectful, carelessLost customers; damaged reputation

Why This Matters for Small Businesses in 2025

For small businesses — with limited budgets, tighter teams, and a need to build long-term relationships — trust-based SMS isn’t a “nice-to-have.” It’s a competitive advantage.

  • Because SMS is direct and personal, it fosters a sense of closeness and service — exactly what small or local brands benefit from.
  • Well-executed SMS builds loyalty: customers who trust your texts are more likely to open, respond, and act.
  • Done poorly, SMS can harm your brand more than silence ever would.

In a world where scams and spam are on the rise, trust becomes a differentiator.

Bottom Line: Treat SMS Like a Permissioned, High-Trust Channel — Not a Broadcast Blast

When you approach SMS with respect, transparency, and value — and treat your audience as humans, not targets — you turn SMS from “spam risk” into a trust engine.

Use it wisely, and you’ll build loyalty, drive engagement, and create a communication channel customers actually appreciate.


Sources

  • Consumer Reports — “Texting and Messaging Scam Attempts Increased by 50 Percent” (2025 Cyber Readiness Report) Consumer Reports
  • TextMagic — “2025 State of Business Texting Report” (U.S. survey) Textmagic
  • Amra & Elma — “Top SMS Open Rate Statistics 2025” Amra and Elma LLC
  • FalkonSMS / aggregated SMS marketing data (industry benchmark) Falkon SMS
  • SimpleTexting 2025 SMS data — opt-in, usage preferences SMS Marketing Services
  • TextRequest — “State of Business Texting Report 2025” (business adoption data) textrequest